AVN Stars Spotlight: Goddess Destiny Discusses Her ‘Erotic Magic’

LOS ANGELES—AVN Stars dominatrix Goddess Destiny offers her fans a magical experience, exploring their “deepest fantasies” and bringing those desires to the surface. But when she says she offers magic, she means that in the literal sense.  “I enjoy using mesmerizing, erotic magic, and using my powers if seduction to get what I want,” she told AVN. “It’s something that comes naturally to me. I do love to bring fantasies to life, and I’m very spiritual. So I use my candles, and I use my natural intuition to pull out the fantasies from my submissive servants — and bring them to reality.” For anyone who has not yet submitted to the Goddess Destiny experience, how would she describe it? “An experience with me is very — intense,” she says with a laugh. “I have a way of getting to the deepest fantasies that men have, and making them face them. Actualize them. Enjoy them — with me. It becomes very addictive very quickly.” When she connects with a new client, Destiny says, she begins by exploring their “fetishes and kinks,” as a way to deepen the connection between dominatrix and submissive.  “The more I get to know them and the more they get to know me, the deeper those fantasies become,” she says. “I like them to fully express their sexuality with me, and give me the control over their desires.” The ability to control over men, she says, has always been intrinsic to her personality. “I can be a sweetheart,” Destiny says. “But dominating men has always come naturally to me. I’ve always been very dominant with men. Submissive men seem to be attracted to me, actually. I’ve always had a dominant streak, pretty much all my life. So this is just a way for me to express myself, and be loved and adored and paid for who I am.” While dominatrixes sometimes describe at least a degree of dichotomy between their online personas and their “real life” identities, for Destiny, that’s not a problem. The person fans see on AVN Stars is the same person who exists in the offline world, she says, adding that she “never” feels any confusion between the two. “It’s literally just a full expression of who I am,” she says. “I get to completely be myself with no apologies. How great is that? It feels great to just be able to express myself, honestly. I feel very at home with who I am, and I think my guys can tell that — that I’m being completely genuine.” At the same time, her online persona, while genuine, isn’t all there is to Goddess Destiny, who describes herself as “a super fun person,” when she’s not online with her submissive fans. “Guys love spending time with me just because of how fun I am. I do like to dance — and I’m a gamer girl. I’m enjoying connecting in that way more. I love video games.” She also has another offline avocation that ties back to her “mesmerizing erotic magic.” She makes her own candles — and plans to release her own line of handmade candles for sale. “I love making candles. It’s very therapeutic and I love how relaxing aromatherapy is,” she says. “I’m self taught. I studied and studied and studied and taught myself candle making. So I go to my store, I get the wax and get the scents I like. And then I can create something. I love using dexterity, my hands to touch and mold and create things, which is really fun. And it’s great for my erotic magic, of course!” Photography by Stephanie Vasiliadis