Honey Gold on Six Ways to Make Valentine's Day Sweeter

It's Valentine's Day, and many AVN readers no doubt have a big night planned. So when adult star Honey Gold reached out to share her ideas for a better date night, we figured it was just the thing for this most romantic of holidays. Gold, featured on the cover of the November 2018 AVN magazine, has performed in more than 170 scenes and was a nominee for Best New Starlet at the 2018 AVN Awards. She offers the following  1. Have a little fun and mix up where and when you have sex! People tend to fall into a routine, which is a bedroom killer. Spontaneous sex in the shower, kitchen, car or wherever else tickles your fancy will help keep things exciting and fun. 2. Foreplay is a must. Everyone has this misconception that foreplay has to be making out, followed by long and awkward oral in the hopes that both partners will be warmed up. I personally like to skip all of that and play wrestle with my partner. There’s something sexy about play wrestling and having my partner chase me around because he wants to bang me. I love the chase and love to tease—it gets me going immediately. Once my partner has had enough, one thing leads to another and my panties are being ripped to the side and a fully engorged member is plunged deep inside me! Foreplay is what you make it and isn’t a one size fits all! 3. Communication is incredibly important in the bedroom. When it comes to pleasing your partner, ask them what they like and if it’s something you’re unfamiliar with, be willing to learn. Nobody likes guessing games and it’s so much more fun when you know exactly how to drive your lover crazy. 4. Make noise and don’t be afraid to dirty talk! How is someone going to know what you like if you lie in bed like a dead fish? Moaning is a great way to let your lover know you love exactly what they’re doing. There’s a feeling of satisfaction one gets in knowing they’re doing all of the right things to drive their partner crazy. Aside from moaning, don’t be afraid to whisper naughty or sweet things in your partner’s ear. It can feel awkward at first, but reading erotic literature online can actually teach you a thing or two about dirty talk. I’ve never told anyone this but I use a site called “literotica” to pick up new naughty things to scream out in the bedroom. 5. Quickies are amazing. Sex doesn’t always have to be long and romantic. Quickies are a great way to get your rocks off without putting a dent in your schedule! 6. Sex doesn’t have to be like a porno! There are so many people who feel insecure about not having a massive cock or huge tits. I’ve had conversations with countless men and women who feel like they don’t measure up and feel as though they have to do circus tricks in the bedroom. Just a little FYI, my favourite positions are missionary and spooning. I like to tell people “KISS”: Keep It Simple Silly.